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The holidays can feel like a tug-of-war, especially when family members don’t understand your desire to give less to your children.
Maybe you’ve embraced a more minimal lifestyle, hoping to focus on meaningful experiences over mountains of gifts.
But when relatives insist on buying excessive toys or overloading your kids with stuff you don’t need or want, it can be frustrating.
It’s tempting to argue, defend your choices, or try to convince everyone why less is better.
But sometimes, picking a battle over these things only creates tension and steals your peace.
The truth is, you don’t have to get everyone on board to stick to your values.
This Christmas, let’s choose peace over the need to control how others contribute.
I’ll share tips for gracefully setting boundaries, managing expectations, and finding compromises that keep the season joyful—without sacrificing your desire for simplicity.
The holidays are about connection and love, not proving a point or getting family to see things your way.
Together, let’s navigate these challenges with grace and keep the focus on what truly matters: creating a peaceful, meaningful Christmas for your family.
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The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy, connection, and celebration.
But for many of us, the pressure to create the perfect Christmas can turn this season into a whirlwind of stress.
The endless to-do lists, the clutter of decorations, the expectation to make everything magical (without losing your sanity!) can leave you feeling overwhelmed and burnt out.
But here’s the truth: you don’t have to do it all.
The joy of Christmas doesn’t come from perfectly wrapped gifts or elaborate holiday traditions; it comes from being present with your loved ones and caring for yourself too.
If the pressure of the season is already piling up, it’s time to take a deep breath and let some of it go.
In this podcast, I’m sharing 5 simple tips to help you release some of that Christmas stress, simplify your holiday approach, and create a season that feels joyful instead of exhausting.
Remember, less pressure = more peace.
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Are you already dreading the tidal wave of toys, trinkets, and random stuff that will fill your house after Christmas morning?
It’s easy to get caught up in the gift-giving frenzy, especially when you want to give your kids the kind of magical holiday you dreamed of as a child.
But let’s be real—how many of those gifts actually get used after the first week?
Most of them end up as clutter, taking up space in your home and adding to the chaos you’re already trying to manage.
If you’re nodding along, let me tell you this—you’re not alone.
Many of us moms feel this way. We want to give our kids joy without drowning in stuff.
A minimalist Christmas doesn’t mean no gifts.
It means intentional gifts.
It’s about creating memories and choosing quality over quantity so you can focus on what truly matters this holiday season.
So if you're ready to break free from the overwhelm of clutter, tune in to this episode for some inspiration!
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Do you ever feel like the clutter in your home mirrors the chaos in your heart?
That overwhelmed, suffocating feeling doesn’t just come from the piles of stuff around you—it’s deeper.
Clutter can weigh on your soul, pulling your attention away from what truly matters.
But what if decluttering wasn’t just about creating a tidy space?
What if decluttering is a way to grow closer to God?
In a world obsessed with more—more stuff, more busyness, more distractions—decluttering can be a powerful act of faith.
It’s about letting go of what you’re holding onto too tightly and trusting that God will provide exactly what you need.
It’s an opportunity to quiet the noise, refocus your heart, and create room for His peace.
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Ever feel like friendship can be a lot more complicated these days?
Do you find yourself quick to pull away from friendships?
Are you tired of being easily offened and participating in cancel culture?
In a world where it’s easy to write people off, real friendship takes real effort.
Building and maintaining strong connections requires putting in the work—setting boundaries, clearly sharing what you need, and learning to forgive.
In Part 5 of my "How to Be a Good Friend" series, we’re tackling five challenging tips that help keep friendships strong, even when it’s hard.
These aren’t just simple gestures; they’re the deeper habits that let us stay close and keep growing together, instead of letting misunderstandings or differences drive us apart.
Let’s dive into these tougher strategies to fight for our friendships and become the friend we’d want to have.
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Do you want to be the kind of friend who makes a positive impact on your friend’s kids?
As moms, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the day-to-day shuffle, but being there for our friends and their children can create a bond that goes beyond a typical friendship.
Showing up for each other’s kids is a meaningful way to deepen those friendships, creating a supportive “village” for our families.
And you don’t need to make grand gestures or be a super-parent for this to make a difference—it’s often the little things that kids (and their parents) remember most.
In Part 4 of my "How to Be a Good Friend" series, we’re going to explore simple, thoughtful ways to support your friend’s kids.
From showing up at their events to sending a quick message on a tough day, these small acts of kindness help her children feel cared for—and let your friend know she's not in this alone.
So if you’re ready to strengthen those bonds and be the friend who truly shows up, here are 12 easy ideas to get you started.
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As a mom, we're not allowed to have sick days. Because who will take care of us?
A couple of years ago when I got COVID two friends came to my rescue bringing me soup and groceries to feed my family. At that point, I realized I needed a friend pact with other moms.
In this episode, I give you three ideas for your "friend pact" to help you build the support system you need to be a thriving mom.
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Are you craving more quality time with your friends but feel like life keeps getting in the way?
Between family, work, and everything else on your plate, it’s easy to let social plans slip through the cracks—especially if you have ADHD.
But spending time with friends is so important for your well-being, and it doesn’t have to be hard to make it happen.
In Part 2 of my "How to Be a Good Friend" series, we’re focusing on planning outings with friends.
Whether it’s a coffee date, a walk in the park, or a night out, scheduling time with the people who matter most can help you feel more connected and supported.
The key is being intentional about it—don’t wait for the perfect time to magically appear (spoiler: it won’t!).
Instead, put it on your calendar and make it a priority.
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Are you feeling lonely and struggling to connect with friends?
It’s hard to keep friendships strong when life is busy, especially as an ADHD mom juggling so much.
Sometimes, it’s easy to let those connections slip through the cracks, and before you know it, you’ve missed an important moment like a friend’s birthday.
But here’s a simple way to start strengthening those relationships: put birthdays on your calendar.
In Part 1 of my "How to Be a Good Friend" series, we’re talking about this small but meaningful step that can make a big impact.
Remembering someone’s birthday and sending a quick message or card shows you care, even when life is chaotic.
It’s a little gesture that can go a long way in keeping your friendships strong.
I’ll guide you through an easy system to track birthdays and remind yourself in advance so you can show up for your friends, no matter how busy or forgetful life gets.
Let’s make staying connected a little easier and show our friends that we truly value them!
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Do you ever feel like your home is overflowing with stuff?
Like no matter how much you declutter, there’s always more creeping in, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and weighed down by all the things?
And what about that constant fear of letting go—just in case you might need something later?
If you struggle with holding onto things, feeling like you need to keep everything for the future, you’re not alone.
But here’s the thing: trusting God with our stuff can free us from that constant worry.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into the story of the Israelites in the wilderness, when God provided manna—just enough for each day—and what it teaches us about trusting Him with our needs.
We’ll talk about how holding onto too much is a sign that we’re not trusting God to provide for us in the future and how we can begin to release that fear.
Join me as we unpack how this story applies to our homes, our clutter, and how we can let go, trusting that God will give us exactly what we need, right when we need it.
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